"Dear Siobhan
I know I have thanked you in person, but I wanted to convey my gratitude
to you once more for all the wonderful support you gave me throughout
my labour and birth, as well as the many hours you spent with me antenatallay
preparing me for what was to come!
You made my birth experience such a positive, calming one and gave me
strength when I thought I couldn't carry on. I wish I had you at my
previous 2 births.
Thank you"
Third baby, March 2009
"Many, many thanks for all the help and support you gave
us in achieving the birth we wanted for Alasdair and helping me get
so much more out of the experience than the last time. You knew exactly
what to do on the day to make things better and it was lovely to have
somebody wo cared so much in the days after the birth when I was struggling
with breastfeeding. Good luck in your career as a Doula, though I doubt
you'll need it."
Second baby, April 2009
"I just wanted to tell you how fantastic I think you are. Alison
has been so lucky to have had your fabulous support over the past 4
days of her labour and birth. You dedication and commitment have helped
her to achieve all she has. You have definitely made my job so much
easier and I would love to be at another birth with you in the future."
Midwife from Albany
Midwifery Practice
"All I can say is THANK YOU. You really and truly made my transition
into motherhood a wonderful experience."
First baby, April 2009
"I suffered from post natal depression with my first child and
was very worried that I was going to suffer really badly again with
my second. Siobhan came highly recommended and was a complete god-send!
She gave me confidence I needed and reassured me when I was questioning
myself as a mum. She helped around the house and helped get me out and
about with 2 small children - something that would've taken me weeks
to achieve. Just knowing that she was coming helped take the pressure
off and her company was wonderful. You transformed my whole experience.
A tip for all future mums-to-be.....GET A DOULA!"
Postnatal work: 4 year old and newborn, November 2008
"I want to thank you for everything you did for Hannah and myself
and of course baby Maisie. You were with us every step of the way through
39 hours of pain, tears and joy and helped reassure both myself and
Hannah in times of uncertainty. We not only gained a beautiful baby
girl, but we gained a friend in you, thank you!"
Second baby, February 2009
"Even though I didn't have the entirely "natural" birth
that I was hoping for, Siobhan gave me the confidence and reasurrance
that I was making the right decisions and this ultimately made my birthing
experience a positive one. I felt so empowered. Thank you Siobhan, I
was so honoured to have you as my Doula!"
First baby, December 2008
"Siobhan came recommended through my local GP and she was a huge
help as I struggled with a difficult newborn and a toddler.
She juggled her diary to accommodate me when she heard the desperation
in my voice and from the moment she walked through my front door she
offered support both practically and emotionally. Siobhan is approachable
and friendly and fantastic with kids – I cannot recommend her
highly enough. I miss her!"
Postnatal work: 2 year old and newborn, June 2009
"Thank you so much for all your help. You were such an amazing
support throughout the labour and birth. We really do feel that we would
have had a very different (negative) experience without you there.
Still mulling over a home birth for the next one, but one thing is for
sure - we definitely want you to be there with us each step of the way!
Lots of love"
First baby, July 2009
"I just want to start by saying that there is nothing I can write
here that can fully express both my families and my own gratitude to
Siobhan for the support she gave us during the birth of my daughter
Lilia Faith. I strongly believe that the role she played as my doula
from January to July of 2009 was a significant factor in ensuring that
I not only had an extremely positive birth experience, but was also
able to successfully establish breastfeeding in the weeks that followed.
As a busy full time teacher, with family living 300 miles away and about
to become a single Mum, I needed a doula who I completed trusted to
give me excellent advice and support, as well as motivate me to do the
things I often forgot about e.g. look after myself! After meeting Siobhan
for the first time in January 2009, with her cheerful, confident and
reassuring personality, I knew straight away that she was the lady who
fit the bill.
The antenatal care given to me by Siobhan was invaluable. Not only did
she attend antenatal classes and a tour of the hospital birth centre
with me, she also sent me regular emails to remind me of things that
I should be thinking about which I found very encouraging and motivating.
Siobhan ensured she met my family when they visited me in London and
immediately put them at ease when they saw I was in very capable hands!
She advised me when I put together my birth plan, making sure that I
considered as many options as possible when making my choices and discussed
at length with my sister, who was my birth partner, how she too could
support me during labour.
As I went overdue by nearly two weeks, I turned to Siobhan for advice
on getting labour started and induction options. Siobhan was in contact
with me nearly every day during this period, offering suggestions to
try and get the baby moving and advising me on my choices when the hospital
started talking about inducing me. She sent me lots of useful information
and internet links so I could thoroughly research my options. I believe
that Siobhan’s input into my decision making helped me to make
the correct choices which lead to such a positive birth experience.
Throughout my labour, Siobhan followed my lead until I was at a stage
where I entrusted her to guide me and take decisions for me. I strongly
believe that Siobhan was able to do this so effectively as she had made
such an effort to get to know and understand me in the 6 months that
she had been my doula. As I completely trusted her judgments I was able
to follow her instructions during labour without question or worry and
I felt extremely comforted by her presence. These feelings were also
shared by my sister who was with us throughout the birth. As soon as
my daughter was born Siobhan encouraged and helped me begin to breastfeed,
something I would have struggled to do without her there. I strongly
believe that Siobhan’s presence and support meant that I was able
to have the positive, quick and natural water birth I had hoped for.
The postnantal care my daughter and I received from Siobhan was again
superb. Due to the hot weather, my daughter was extremely sleepy and
struggling to feed properly and I was on the verge of giving up breastfeeding
after just a few days. Siobhan spent an entire afternoon with us looking
for solutions to the problems we were having, and subsequently I am
still breastfeeding a very healthy and bouncing baby 6 weeks later!
Having Siobhan as my doula made me more relaxed, informed and confident
about becoming a first time Mum, and I would absolutely recommend her
first-class services to anyone who is looking for that extra-special
support in a very exciting but quite scary time in their lives!"
Nikki, Mum to Lilia Faith, June 2009